As a psychologist who specializes in counseling men, I feel the movie "Field of Dreams" is valuable: It answers questions I encounter hourly in my work, and I have been recommending it to both men and women.
Men ask if they can do something in life that means something. The answer is yes; it involves change, it involves risk, it involves continuing to believe, even when others don't agree.
Second, men ask if they can find a good marital partner. This is especially true for a single or divorced man. Amy Madigan (who portrays Kevin Costner's wife in the movie) shows it's still possible for a man and woman to be passionate and to dream together! The men I work with want committed relationships.
Third, men ask about--even yearn for--the chance to communicate with their fathers. Most men wish they could tell him: "Now I understand--you really did love me."