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Day for Celebration Turns Solemn


HYANNIS PORT, Mass. — They came for a wedding, but soon, on Saturday, the atmosphere at the Kennedy compound here was much more like a wake.

"How much more can a family take?" wondered Joan Greim, who for years has worked at the John F. Kennedy Hyannis Museum.

As family and friends converged on Cape Cod for what was to be by Kennedy standards a small wedding--about 275 people--they were greeted with the somber news that the private plane carrying 38-year-old John F. Kennedy Jr.; his wife, Carolyn Bessette Kennedy, 33; and her 34-year-old sister, Lauren Bessette, was missing in the ocean near Martha's Vineyard.

Rather than a celebration for Rory Kennedy, youngest daughter of Ethel Kennedy and the late Robert F. Kennedy, as she prepared to marry fellow filmmaker Mark Bailey, the gathering became a tense wait for word on the fate of the dashing son of the late President John F. Kennedy and the late Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis, symbol of all the glamour and sophistication that once was Camelot.

Once the plane piloted by John F. Kennedy Jr. was confirmed missing, the bridal couple postponed their scheduled 6 p.m. nuptials. Instead, with the tent still set up for the wedding festivities, about 40 family members held an outdoor Mass at the compound, where not far away, planes, boats and divers searched the sea for some sign of hope that the Kennedy family's preternatural curse of tragedy had not found its way to this wedding.

The 31-year-old bride, after all, was not yet born when her father was shot dead in Los Angeles in 1968 on the night he won California's Democratic presidential primary. Six months later, when the 11th child of the former senator and onetime attorney general was born, her mother chose the name Rory, an affectionate adaptation of Robert.

It was Rory who on New Year's Eve in 1997 rushed to the side of her 39-year-old brother, Michael, as he collided with a tree while skiing in Aspen, Colo. She pressed her lips to his, trying to breathe life into his body, and then she pressed his heart. "Michael," she implored, "now's the time to fight."

That blend of pluck and family devotion characterized the near-mythic spirit of a clan that has captured this country's imagination for several decades. No other political dynasty so held the nation in the grip of its trials and triumphs, its quips and its quests.

President Kennedy's exhortation to "ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country" emblazoned itself upon an entire generation. Even those born after World War II know the heroic tales of Joseph P. Kennedy Jr.--shot down over the English Channel in 1944 while fighting against Hitler--and John F. Kennedy in his PT boat.

Even in those earlier days, sadness seemed to hover over a family that publicly laughed, frolicked and joined in singing Irish tunes. Of the original nine children of Joseph and Rose Kennedy, two died in plane crashes before the age of 30. In addition to Joe Kennedy Jr., Kathleen--known as "Kick" for her penchant for good times--died in a plane crash at 28 in 1948. Another sister, Rosemary, has been institutionalized since 1941 because of mental retardation and a failed lobotomy.

And two brothers were felled by assassins' bullets. John F. Kennedy was 46 when he was killed by Lee Harvey Oswald in Dallas on Nov. 22, 1963. Robert F. Kennedy was shot at age 42 by Sirhan Sirhan at the Ambassador Hotel in Los Angeles in 1968.

The generation of Rory Kennedy and John F. Kennedy Jr. also has seen its share of success. Several cousins have gone to Congress; others hold statewide or local office. One cousin, Maria Shriver, is a prominent television newscaster and the wife of film star Arnold Schwarzenegger. Joseph P. Kennedy III and his brother Michael started an oil company that serves an indigent population.

Still, the lure of danger runs strong. The skiing accident that killed Michael Kennedy apparently involved a beloved if perilous family game--one where participants skied backward and tossed a frozen football. The recklessness, a heightened sense of adventure, also was a strong Kennedy trait.

Michael Kennedy himself was said to have been treated for sex addiction and conducted a highly publicized affair with his children's teenage baby-sitter. His brother David, the fourth of Robert and Ethel Kennedy's children, died at 28 of a drug overdose in a hotel near the family's vacation home in Palm Beach, Fla.

Joseph P. Kennedy III, oldest son of Robert and Ethel, turned a Jeep over when he was 20, leaving his brother David's girlfriend, Pamela Kelley, paralyzed below the chest. His first wife, Sheila, bitterly fought his attempt to annul their marriage and wrote an angry book depicting the then-Massachusetts congressman as an impetuous hothead. After Michael Kennedy's death, "young Joe," as the tousle-haired congressman is known throughout his home state, chose not to run for reelection.

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