Cached copies of the blog reveal intimate postings by both Jay and Kitti about sex, the changes in their relationship after having children and Kitti's transition from a career to being an at-home mother -- all written with the candor of private letters. With a comments section, the typical pressures of marriage in flux were played out before an interactive audience.
The website has gone fallow.
"Goodbye," Jay wrote in June above the freshly erased blog space. "The blog turned into a very bad thing for our relationship so now it's gone."
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A census of senses, records of City Hall and so much more.
Finding the jewels among Los Angeles' thousands of blogs can take some doing. This is a highly selective list of some of the more interesting -- and regularly updated -- blogs.
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POLITICS
Mayor Sam: Most of the political blogs take a national perspective, but Mayor Sam, written anonymously, focuses on Los Angeles' City Hall and other Southland and California political issues. MayorSam.BlogSpot.com
Professor Bainbridge: A mostly conservative take on politics and economics from UCLA corporate law professor Stephen Bainbridge. www.ProfessorBainbridge.com
Politics in the Zeros: A leftist view, from international relations to South Los Angeles grass-roots fundraisers. www.PoliZeros.com
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MEDIA/CELEBRITY
LAObserved: Former Times staffer Kevin Roderick's detached view of L.A. media and politics. The site for insiders. www.LAObserved.com
Defamer: A snarky view of media and celebrity culture. www.Defamer.com
FishbowlLA: Part of the Media Bistro family of blog sites, it offers a daily (though slow-posting) overview of L.A.-centric media stories. www.MediaBistro.com/FishbowlLA
LA Cowboy: Writer Brady Westwater unloads his six-shooter on the media, usually The Times. LACowboy.BlogSpot.com
Patterico's Pontifications: Patrick Frey, a Los Angeles County prosecutor, takes on the press. Patterico.com
Pop Bytes: Gushy takes on the latest dish; the star-struck fan's alternative to Defamer. www.PopBytes.com
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ARTS
The Aesthetic: A journal of "art and ideas" in the South Bay. www.TheAesthetic.com
Art Blogging LA: News and previews of L.A. art events. Art.Blogging.la
Ash Tree: An intensely personal view by Henry Baum as he struggles to make his mark as an author and songwriter. HBaum.blogspot.com