Magaluf, Majorca — AFTER jostling crowds at one tourist-clogged port after another, the chance for a shore break on this sunny Mediterranean island was just what the ship's doctor ordered.
The beach at Magaluf beckoned, and Kevin, my 19-year-old son, and I stretched out under the shade of a thatched umbrella hut. Bikini tops tied to the yardarms of the huts around us fluttered in the breeze, like flags of hedonism, while their owners got that little extra bit of sun.
Now we know why some call Magaluf "Majorca's Party Capital." But not all was perfect in this seaside slice of heaven.
My wife, Alison, and our daughter, Kelly, 21, dressed like Nebraskans in November and looking poker faced, surveyed the free-spirited beach scene and then stomped off to the nearby shops.
Then there was our 14-year-old daughter, Katie, who was missing. She left our ship, Holland America's Noordam, in a separate taxi with her aunt, uncle and cousin, and we hadn't seen any of them since.
Still, if I learned anything on our 10-day Mediterranean voyage with 14 family members, it was to relax and enjoy the moment. This time at the beach would be over soon enough; the ship's unbending schedule would see to that.
And keeping everyone together on shore excursions? Why start now?
Still, there's much to be said for taking a cruise with a group. Whether it's playing bingo or sampling the midnight buffet, you can probably find someone to go along with you. Even better, you might get conscripted into doing something you might normally never try (such as, oh, tango lessons, in my case).
As a bonus, there's the chance to share a series of adventures ashore in a way that might be impossible without the structure of a cruise. With our bunch, for example, endless disputes would arise if we tried to chart the course for a European tour on our own. The cruise format made it simpler: Once the itinerary was chosen, we were done.
Well, almost. After booking the cruise, passengers can buy shore excursions in advance. Here's a decision: Do you roam on your own or get on a tour? There's pressure to decide early, because the most popular tours sell out before the ship sets sail. Cost is another consideration: Each tour can cost $200 or more per person, so if the budget is tight, you may be able to choose only one or two.
Traveling with a group adds another wrinkle: Do you tour together or go your separate ways?
