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Debate on autistic kids in public

There is a wide range of opinions on the children's behavior, even among the children's parents.

August 24, 2008|Dave Kolpack | The Associated Press

FARGO, N.D. — When a 13-year-old Minnesota boy was banned from church after parishioners complained about his behavior, the incident exposed a painful truth so politically incorrect that some people feel guilty just saying it aloud: Some autistic children can be annoying and disruptive in public.

The case of Adam Race and others like him has laid bare conflicted feelings -- among both parents of these children and other people -- over autistic youngsters in public places. And it has stirred debate over how much consideration one side owes the other.

In the case of Adam Race, a judge agreed with a priest in Bertha, Minn., who said the 225-pound teenager was disruptive and dangerous, and upheld a restraining order barring him from services. The priest said Adam spit, wet his pants, made loud noises and nearly ran over people while bolting from the church after services.

Carol Race, Adam's mother, said the congregation's claims were exaggerated.

But in a letter to the Star Tribune of Minneapolis, JoAnn Brinda of Crystal, Minn., said the Race family should have shown more consideration for others.

"I don't understand why families that have a challenged child who becomes loud and abusive remain at a service where all participants are quiet and contemplative most of the time," Brinda wrote.

Susan Duclos of Peoria, Ariz., who writes the Wake Up America blog, called the Race story a "horrible situation all around."

"I have known a few people over my lifetime who have had to deal with autism with their children," Duclos said. "It's as frustrating for them as it is for the public."

Similar cases involving people with autism have played out in public recently. A California man was kicked out of a health club for screaming. A North Carolina boy was taken off a plane before takeoff after having a meltdown. A South Carolina girl was ordered out of a restaurant for crying by the town's police chief.

Syndicated radio talk show host Michael Savage added to the furor in July when he said doctors and drug companies were over-diagnosing autism. "I'll tell you what autism is: In 99% of the cases, it's a brat who hasn't been told to cut the act out," he said. Several major companies pulled their advertising from Savage's show.

Lisa Jo Rudy, who is the mother of an autistic child and writes and consults on autism, said Savage's words were "truly nasty and hurtful." At the same time, Rudy said, the talk show host has raised awareness of some of the frustrations of parents of autistic children and the wider public.

Rudy said there are times when parents should not put their children in situations in which they may be disruptive. "Some of these stories really are the ones where the general public can absolutely identify with the other side of the story," Rudy said.

Jason Goldtrap of Davenport, Fla., said too many people diagnosed with autism are out and about in public because of political correctness. Goldtrap, 40, has two nephews, ages 3 and 21, with autism and said the older one has become so violent at times that the police have been called.

"I certainly sympathize with all the families who are in this situation," Goldtrap said. "But when we got away from the concept of institutionalization in America, we lost an important element of trying to maintain civility. There is a place for mental institutions."

Goldtrap added, "If it were up to me, he would be in an institution. My brother doesn't agree, and that's his prerogative."

Autism is a disorder that inhibits a person's ability to communicate and can include a host of complications. It varies widely in its severity. Some people are well-behaved; others are prone to outbursts or self-abusive behavior such as biting or headbanging.

A recent study by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 1 out of every 150 U.S. children over the age of 8 is autistic or suffers from a related disorder. About 560,000 Americans under 21 are believed to have autism.

Many parents say that their autistic children are largely misunderstood, that they can't help it when they act up, and that they need interaction with the public.

Barbara Coppo, whose 30-year-old son, Kenny, was banned from a Vallejo, Calif., health club for screaming, said Americans need to learn about living with autistic children.

"Autism may frighten people because so little is known about the disorder," said Coppo, who wrote a book about her son. "The cause has not been scientifically proven and the victims often act in ways society doesn't understand."

But some parents wonder how much understanding can be gained in grocery stores, churches or other public places.

Nikki Wilmoth-Williams of Rockport, Texas, said certain high-traffic areas are off-limits for her autistic son Zach, 14.

"I'm an advocate for my child, but we all have to play on the same playground," she said. "It's not about clearing the playground so my child can be on it."

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