Pamela Fryman is the set mom on 'How I Met Your Mother'
PRIME-TIME TV
FOR FOUR seasons, CBS' "How I Met Your Mother" has been driven by discovering the identity of the woman who gives the show its title. But talk to anyone who works on the Monday night comedy and there's really only one mother that counts -- Pamela Fryman.
The 49-year-old director has nurtured the series since the pilot and Monday she's behind the camera again for the show's highly anticipated wedding between Ted (Josh Radnor) and Stella (Sarah Chalke). The sitcom veteran is noted not just for her lengthy list of comedy credits but also for her uncanny manner with co-workers -- even when they turn out to be Britney Spears or Suzie the chimp.
"She knows the exact right way to talk to 50 different kinds of people from different worlds," said show co-creator Craig Thomas last month on set, minutes before the chimpanzee appeared for her scene. "She makes everyone feel they've been heard and respected and she can connect with anyone. And I think today you'll see that she can even talk to monkeys. She's like Crocodile Dundee. She can literally charm and tame animals as well."
Suzie is a newscaster -- a new colleague of Robin's (Cobie Smulders) now that she has moved to Japan, seeking a higher rung on the career ladder. The scene called for Robin to read the news while Suzie wreaks havoc with, among other things, marshmallows. Later, the chimp piggybacks onto Robin as they end their newscast, but Suzie -- clearly a diva -- went off script and straddled Smulders diagonally across her back instead.
As Smulders frantically tried to reposition her costar, Fryman jumped out from behind the monitors -- with proper care not to startle Suzie -- and said: "Stay like that. I think it's funnier."
After several seasons on "Frasier" and "Just Shoot Me," and shorter stints on "Two and a Half Men," and "Friends," Fryman is a well recognized judge of funny. She's managed to succeed in an ever-shrinking genre in which it is challenging for any TV director to make a mark, let alone a woman. Although she acknowledges encountering the occasional bully, Fryman says she owes much of her opportunities to men, such as Peter Noah and Jimmy Burrows, who believed in her before she even knew what directing was.
Thomas and his partner, Carter Bays, hired her for their first pilot the same day they met her. Best friends and writers together on "Late Show With David Letterman," Thomas and Bays had never run a series when CBS decided to give their show a shot four years ago. They envisioned the comedy, as a traditional sitcom, filmed with four cameras in front of a live audience.
