RALPH FIENNES is not an easy man to get close to. Generally regarded as one of the finest actors of his generation, breathing the same rarefied air as the likes of Daniel Day-Lewis, he is similarly reluctant to engage in the cycle of personal revelation that usually accompanies publicizing a movie.
While promoting "The Duchess" at the Toronto International Film Festival this month, Fiennes recalled a lengthy interview with a writer for a glossy magazine who grew exasperated with his refusal to discuss his private sphere. "She got mad and said, 'You don't want to be known,' " Fiennes said, cutting a minimalist profile in a buzz cut and a trim black suit. "I don't want to be. I don't want to tell you everything, open up my heart. Why should I?"
Where audiences are involved, Fiennes is more comfortable playing a character than being himself. He recalled returning to the stage after a charity performance playing the garrulous Berowne in "Love's Labor's Lost" to ask for donations and suddenly being struck by stage fright. His voice jumped several octaves as he imitated his throat constricting in fear. "I'd been playing an extremely extroverted, high-energy character and I suddenly realized I had a whole other set of nerves that I got awkward about."

