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Nannies who get flu shots may have an edge in the job market

Many refuse -- some out of fear -- and that can cause a rift between caregivers and the families that employ them.

January 03, 2010|By Molly Hennessy-Fiske
  • Nanny Blanca Duarte, who refused to get an H1N1 shot, plays with Julian Moggach, 3. His mother, Samantha Slattery, holds his little sister, Charlotte.
Nanny Blanca Duarte, who refused to get an H1N1 shot, plays with Julian Moggach,… (Mel Melcon / Los Angeles…)

About three months ago, Samantha Slattery approached her nanny about getting the H1N1 flu vaccine. Slattery, 33, of Topanga, had a 5-month-old daughter and 2-year-old son. The baby was too little to be vaccinated, and Slattery wanted to avoid vaccinating her son.

But nanny Blanca Duarte refused. Duarte, 47, said she was afraid the vaccine would make her sick; she had gotten ill after a flu vaccination years before.

"For three weeks I could not work," Duarte said. "After that, I said no more."

She also worried about side effects. She said her teenage daughter had heard rumors at Crenshaw High that the vaccine makes you sterile. And she said her family doctor did not even have the vaccine in stock.

For many parents and caregivers, reaching agreement about flu vaccines has proved impossible, even amid initial fears that the H1N1 pandemic could prove more dangerous than seasonal flu.

New parents are particularly concerned, because babies younger than 6 months -- too young for vaccination -- are considered among those most at risk for serious complications.

This month is a peak hiring season for nannies nationwide as families return from holiday vacations and new mothers go back to work, according to officials from major nanny placement agencies.

Some nannies are trying to get an edge in the tough economy by advertising themselves as having received the H1N1 vaccine. But many others refuse vaccinations, parents and doctors say, because they are concerned about rumored side effects or unable to get access to the vaccine because of shortages.

In recent weeks, online message boards have filled as parents struggle to persuade nannies to be vaccinated, fire nannies who refuse and screen new applicants.

"Ugh! I am so frustrated right now that I could explode," the mother of a premature baby girl wrote on "I have been interviewing potential nannies for the past several weeks. I finally found one that I was feeling confident that I would like to hire, I called to get more info for reference check and also I had forgot to ask if they were OK with getting both flu and swine vaccine this year. The response was no."

"I can't make her do it," another parent wrote on "I offered to pay. If she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to."

Mothers in West Los Angeles and New York City are calling agencies to ask how to broach the subject of vaccination with their nannies, said Claudia Kahn, owner and founder of the Help Company in Santa Monica, which serves families in both Los Angeles and New York.

"It's a very touchy discussion, to ask people to get vaccinated," Kahn said. "There's a fine line about medical things, and people are questioning whether they're allowed to ask, if it's prying into their health background."

Slattery, a music event coordinator, had heard about other families requiring nannies to get vaccinated and show proof. Instead, Slattery was vaccinated, as were her son and her husband, a visual effects supervisor for movies that have included "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone."

"I didn't want to force my nanny," Slattery said. "It's a personal choice. I wasn't going to get heavy-handed about it."

Relationships between mothers and nannies can be fraught with unspoken tension about terms of employment and parenting, said Lindsay Heller, a psychologist and former nanny.

Heller mediates between nannies and parents at her Beverly Hills consulting business, the Nanny Doctor.

The H1N1 flu scare exposed rifts in some families, she said, if the "power of privilege" initially allowed parents to get the vaccine through their doctors while many nannies had a harder time finding it for their families.

In other cases, Heller said, she heard from nannies who said they worried vaccines could make them sick or lead to autism in their children.

At QueensCare Family Clinic in Hollywood, many patients ask Dr. Guillermo Diaz whether he and his children have been vaccinated. The pediatrician and father of two tells them his family members are all vaccinated -- as is his nanny.

Diaz said that about half of his Latino patients have refused the vaccine but that the other half "are proponents."

"I don't think it's a matter of culture so much as whether they are believing the rumors and bad reports," Diaz said. "Nannies have networks and speak among them, so if one nanny says no and it spreads, then it's all over."

California legal experts say they have been fielding calls from anxious parents and agencies dealing with reluctant nannies.

"What I'm hearing from families is there does seem to be some push-back from nannies about getting the shot," said Bob King, lawyer and founder of Irvine-based Legally Nanny, which provides legal advice to families and nanny agencies. "It's largely driven by fear from the nannies."

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