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'Enough Said' director found kindred spirit in Julia-Louis Dreyfus

For 'Enough Said,' Julia Louis-Dreyfus was just who Nicole Holofcener needed to portray a mom facing an awkward dating life and an empty nest. James Gandolfini made them a trio.

September 18, 2013|By Nicole Sperling
  • Julia Louis-Dreyfus, a cast member in the film "Enough Said," poses for a portrait on day 4 of the 2013 Toronto International Film Festival on Sunday, Sept. 8, 2013 in Toronto.
Julia Louis-Dreyfus, a cast member in the film "Enough Said,"… (Chris Pizzello / Invision…)

Julia Louis-Dreyfus takes her phone out of her purse in the middle of lunch to show off a photo that's served as her screen saver for the last three years. It's a shot of the actress, her husband, Brad Hall, and their two sons just before they left their eldest on the doorstep of his new college.

It's also the picture that helped her land the lead role in Nicole Holofcener's new movie, "Enough Said."

"Seeing how emotional she was about her son going away … it was a big topic," said Holofcener, 53, recalling how Louis-Dreyfus, 52, turned to the snapshot when they first met to discuss empty nest syndrome and the film's protagonist, a divorcée contending with the wild emotions associated with sending her child off into the world. "She cried. I loved that."

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"I totally fooled her," said Louis-Dreyfus with a laugh.

Actually, there seems to be little that Louis-Dreyfus could put over on Holofcener these days, so simpatico the two appear to be after their intense collaboration on "Enough Said," which arrives in theaters Wednesday following its premiere at the Toronto International Film Festival.

The movie centers on Eva, a masseuse and mother of a high school senior who begins dating a large, quirky man named Albert, played by James Gandolfini. Things get complicated when Eva also befriends Albert's ex-wife (Catherine Keener) without realizing the connection between the two. The film marks one of the last on-screen performances for Gandolfini, who died in June of a heart attack at age 51.

Though Holofcener is known for her knack for translating her personal life into big-screen stories like "Please Give" and "Friends With Money," her fifth feature feels especially poignant, perhaps because the writer-director is anxiously prepping for the not-too-distant departure of her own twin 16-year-old boys.

And in Louis-Dreyfus, she seems to have found someone who not only can access the emotions she is looking to convey but also may be her cinematic doppelgänger. The duo, both from New York, are practically the same height and nearly the same age. They share a similar fashion style and sense of humor.

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"She's the movie star version of me," quipped Holofcener as Louis-Dreyfus reached over to adjust the clasp on her necklace. "I do think what's important to us is very similar. Our children are the most important thing to us, I think."

"As opposed to everyone else in the world?" asked Louis-Dreyfus.

"Oh, yeah, it's just us. It's what makes us special. And makes our children special," Holofcener deadpanned before trying again at a real answer. "I guess we both find humor in discomfort."

"We will laugh when our hearts break," added Louis-Dreyfus. "That's the name of the book we are going to write."

Uncomfortable moments

Mining discomfort is something both women do very well. Holofcener's films have tackled everything from interracial adoption to financial inequality among friends; Louis-Dreyfus has been the queen of exploiting awkward situations since her days on "Seinfeld."

So when the two got together on "Enough Said," the central challenge was calibrating the emotional moments to align them with the comedy.

"I wanted, of course, for it to be funny but also true, real, real, true, small, small," said Louis-Dreyfus. "It has a lot of drama in it. I wanted you to buy that, making sure the comedy didn't get too broad so the stuff on the other side, the dramatic moments in the film, were believable."

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One of the most difficult points was the fateful scene in which Eva and her ex-husband must say goodbye to their daughter at the airport as she ventures off to college. The cast and crew had only a brief three hours in the Ontario airport to nail the emotionally packed moment, and a group of unruly extras was ruining the mood.

Yet, according to Holofcener, that scene gets viewers all kinds of crying. "I've had men who don't have kids say they were weeping. Isn't that odd?" asked Holofcener. "But I'm so happy to hear that stuff. I love to make people cry. It's what I live for."

For Louis-Dreyfus, who's made a career of television comedy and is about to begin filming the third season of her Emmy-nominated "Veep," moving audiences to tears with something other than laughter is a new sensation. Holofcener is eager to explore that further, and the two are looking for another project.

"Her performance in that scene is a director's dream," said Holofcener. "Not only is she falling apart, but she's trying not to fall apart. That is even more emotional, seeing her trying to keep it together for her kid. I hope to God I can do it."

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