November 23, 2009
Dear Amy: I recently got divorced. We have two girls, ages 6 and 9. We're great parents and get along well. My older daughter has blamed my ex for making her daddy leave. She's out of control and doesn't mind her mother well. For a while after we broke up, I was going to the house and sleeping over as friends. The kids saw us hug and kiss and said, "You guys look so good together!" and "Give daddy a kiss, Mommy!" Now my ex is seeing someone. She told me they've decided to move in together -- with the kids.
December 24, 2010 |
Here's a holiday classic likely going on in your house right now: Johnny is misbehaving, Mommy is having none of it, Mommy tells Johnny that she's going to tell Santa on him right now . Jen Weigel of the Chicago Tribune writes in this story how it recently played out for her: "Getting my son to be motivated for school in the morning is always a challenge. (He's only 4, so I cringe at my future.) But the other morning, he gave me so much trouble that I did what any mother would do when pressed for time and patience: I played the Santa card.
CALIFORNIA | LOCAL
April 29, 2001
Re "60 Pills Divided by 6 Youths Equals a Trip to the Hospital," April 22. People say that kids do that sort of thing because they don't know the side effects, but to tell you the truth, it's because they just want to take them and see what happens. It's curiosity not stupidity that drives kids to take drugs in the first place. . . . Medication of that sort should not be sold to minors for their own safety. Kids like these make other kids look stupid and inexperienced. These kind of actions are what scares parents into not letting the responsible kids have fun. HANNAH YANKELEVICH Granada Hills
September 2, 1995
In a recent film review, Kenneth Turan expresses his regrets for not being able to save us from "Kids," the film (" 'Kids': Grossing Out the Old Squares," Calendar, July 28). Turan wants to save us not only from seeing our own tragic social realities, but also from facing the complexities of our own individual existence, which he does not seem to be able to understand any better than the kids he likes to reject. The purity of kids like those in "Kids" is to be seen only by those who actually still have it deep in their own hearts.
February 7, 2010 |
My husband, Tony; my daughter, Callie, 15; and son Zeke, 12, and I spent 10 days traveling in Spain in July. Callie had been living with a family there for three weeks before we met her in Málaga, on the country's sunny southern coast. From there, we traveled to Ronda and Granada before settling in Barcelona for five days. It was a lot to fit into a 10-day trip, but I had it all mapped out. Day by day. Hour by hour. In my effort to anticipate problems, I over-worried, over-planned and underestimated my kids' resourcefulness.
CALIFORNIA | LOCAL
December 15, 1996
Re "Woodworkers Donate 100 Handmade Toys," Dec. 10. Just wanted to say thanks for the story on the Winnetka woodworkers and their cool bulldozers. They didn't just make Christmas brighter for kids, they made it brighter for me! It's cheery just to think about those well-made little trucks and the kids who will invent games with them for years to come. CYNTHIA WISEHART Burbank
CALIFORNIA | LOCAL
January 31, 1997
The irony is stunning. Taxpayers just put $373 million into building a new jailhouse, the Twin Towers, while at Charles Maclay Middle School in Pacoima, "you could have seen it raining inside the classroom," according to Assistant Principal Dan Rodriguez (Jan. 25). Why do we wait until kids become inmates to invest in them? AMY ALKON Venice
January 31, 1999
Regarding "Screaming Babies on Board" (Taking the Kids, Dec. 20): Nothing in the U.S. is free. The writer neglected to mention that "Delta's just-for-kids" frequent-flier club had a sign-up charge. [Editor's note: The club is no longer accepting new enrollments.] The best airline to travel with a child? British Airways. When flying LAX to London's Heathrow or Gatwick airports, there are buggies that can be booked to meet the family so that parents can wheel their kids through the checkout procedure; a professionally run child center in Heathrow; bulkhead seats fitted with a bassinet shelf; and planes equipped with a changing station in the restroom.